I’ve gone on several salt dating safaris in the past year. These wild and dangerous adventures have given me the unique experience of observing sugar babies in a variety of different habitats. After studying their nature for some time, I’ve come to report my findings.


If there’s one key observation I’ve been able to take away from my time in the field it’s that sugar babies are most like chameleons. They have the impressive ability to instantly adapt their image to a multitude of environments. And they can seamlessly adopt different roles and behaviors that are wholly dependent on the people around them at the current moment. Namely, playing the role of princess for one audience and prostitute for another.


Let’s dig deeper into this new breed of woman rapidly spreading throughout the millennial generation.


Exhibit A – Sugar Baby Income From Escorting & Prostitution


A ground-breaking discovery was that sugar babies out-earn their non-sex worker peers by a margin of approximately three-to-one.



I’m sure she felt comfortable with that number as it’s a tax-free $52,000 a year. A typical American worker filing taxes single would need to earn a salary of roughly $75,000 a year to take home $52,000 post-tax.


This message came from a 19-year-old college student. She was short, blonde, and petite. I’m confident that most men would rate her as a 9/10 in the looks department.


So effectively, our Exhibit A is making $75,000 a year leasing out her vagina on a once-per-week basis. This puts her in the top 30% income bracket of American households. But let’s also not forget most households have two people earning an income so she’s likely closer to being in the top 10% of earners.


My key takeaway from this field observation is that the sugar baby thrives in an environment of extreme thirst. She acts as an oasis in the middle of the American desert wasteland charging parched men a grand a week for access to her private reserves.


Exhibit B – Social Standing


A common misconception about sugar babies is that they are at the bottom of the social hierarchy along with “real prostitutes”. Only a certain type of woman would opt for the sugar baby life. I.e., someone from the dregs of society.



But my time in the field prompts me to report the complete opposite.


The certain types of women opting into this lifestyle are not impoverished lepers but rather suburban middle and upper-class college students as well as metropolitan young professionals. Many of them are the future doctors, lawyers, and corporate executives of America. The women opting into this lifestyle are the women that men have historically chased after and have wanted to enter romantic relationships with.


As further research on Instagram and other social media sites confirmed, sugar babies have the quality of social life that one would normally come to expect from an above-average attractive girl. And it was entirely common to find pictures of sugar babies with men who were clearly their committed boyfriends. It was unclear how much of an awareness these men had regarding their girlfriend’s escorting proclivities, but one suspects it was minimal.


As stated earlier, a key takeaway is that the sugar baby can change and adapt her behavior and outward perception much like a chameleon.


Exhibit C – The Princess/Prostitute Paradox


Traditional prostitutes are a species that have been around for millennia. But historically, there has always been an unspoken social contract stating that if a woman prostitutes herself, she subjects herself to society’s shame and forfeits the majority of potential marital suitors she likely could have had.


Thus, men never had a real problem with prostitutes existing in the world. The social costs for a woman to become a whore acted as a deterrent that prevented them from succumbing to the temptation of trading mind, body, and soul for fortune, glamor, and Jimmy Choo accessories.


I can report this is now most certainly changing in America with the “sugar” re-branding movement. The conventional terminology such as prostitution and whore is being deliberately replaced with more cutesy-sounding names like sugaring and sugar babies, words far more palatable to the female psyche.


My final takeaway is that this re-branding movement enables the sugar baby to pursue a double-edged dating approach where she extracts large amounts of resources through prostitution with one group of men and at the same time retains the popular princess lifestyle with her main group. Throughout most of human history, a woman of status was the antithesis of a whore. But as recent trends have shown, it now appears that princesshood and prostitution are two contradictory lifestyles that can be found embodied within the modern woman at the exact same time.


The future of the sugar baby as a species is unclear but dependent on the actions of the common man once he finally realizes what kind of scandalous connivery is going on right underneath his nose.


Will the normal good guy that most sugar babies seek to one day pair up with be so disgusted with her behavior that he refuses to give his hand in marriage? Will he recognize the opportunities of salt dating in “Dude, this is awesome” fashion? Or will he be desperate enough for companionship with a hot babe that he turns a blind eye and marries her anyway?


While my reporting likely won’t impact the collective societal reaction to sugar babies, it will at least pull this world out from the shadows and into broad daylight for all to see.



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  • Seppuku

    Hey City Bachelor, I really like your site, congratulations!

    On the topic of sugar dating, I have a few experiences I can relate – although not coming directly from a sugar dating website. I was in Cebu city, Philippines, and took a girl from an online platform into a date, then quickly moved to my hotel. Once in my room, the girl didn’t show any
    hurry to undress, she laid in my bed then opened the TV. When I got closer to her, she asked me if I wanted to be “Friends with Benefits”. Well I have my own way to understand this term, so I said yes, then she was fine and we proceeded to have sex. Once it was done, she asked for money. WTF? I told her she should have told me before it was business. She then said that I agreed to be FWB with her. LOL! That’s a new reading of this term. And another way of feeling good about what is outright prostitution.

    In Doha where I live, I came across a few girls with whom the first date would go great, but when I moved on to take them home, they would ask “If I come home with you, will you help me financially?”. I tell the girl she should have told me it’s business before coming on a date. Typical answer is “View it this way. It’s like helping out a friend financially”. Well, I can help out a friend once in a while, but the friend would be a long established friend in the first place, whereas these girls put the financial help as an upfront condition to start any kind of “relationship”.

    This, plus sugar daddy sites, is a new trend of prostitution framed as “socially acceptable”, and who doesn’t want to say its true name. If it gets mainstream, it is a very bad news for the dating market, where little entitled ladies can engage into prostitution at will without the drawbacks
    of slut shaming – just like you said. What will be left in the “normal” dating world are the lower quality girls, fatties and all, that don’t have the option of a sugar daddy.

    That’s why I want to say, your “Salt Dating” idea is a very good idea. We need more like this in order to bust out this awful trend.

    PS. On second thoughts, if too many girls become sugar babies, the competition will drive their price down. Supply and demand. LOL.
    PPS. Reading your posts, I’m now thinking of starting an Instagram account.

  • Tim Rideau

    she _SAYS_ she made $1k last time. Negotiation tactics rule #1.

    • Good point

      • Hunn

        But it can not be denied: they are making good money.

        Still, I do not understand the totally hyperinflated prices men are ready to shell out for them. It is beyond ridiculous.

        However, something deeply important is happening. I don’t know how much you believe in New World Order, but it is said one goals of NWO is reducing all human interactions to mere financial transactions. This Sugar-BS fits the big picture, I would say.

        • Yeah it doesn’t make sense why sugar daddies would drop thousands when they can just go on backpages and pay $300 or something. Maybe because sugar babies are better at blurring the lines and making them forget the cold hard transactional nature of conventional prostitution

          • Hunn

            Some sort of girlfriend-experience, cleverly imitated intimacy, is that what you mean? Because sounds reasonable. They are not paying for sex, they are paying for a sort of normal relationship, an imitation of normal relationship of the kind women of the past were capable to give to their men as default option.

  • RobertParker14

    This article is a complete joke. You call it “research” but your entire evidence base for your discovery that “sugar babies out earn non-sex workers” is one tweet from one person! And you try and present this as legitimate research.No wonder the mainstream perception of the entire manosphere/meninist/antifeminist philosophy is that it is built on inaccuracies and poor quality research.Its sad that there are young guys presumably reading this and taking it as fact,due to their own lack of critical thinking skills.Well done author you are contributing to the dumbing down of society.

    • It might be a tough pill to swallow, acknowledging that your dating pool is devolving into casual mass prostitution. But it is happening with or without your awareness.

      Also the research tone is meant to be a little satirical.

  • Jack

    Again, thanks for the article. I guess the real question is, if you’re an average guy just looking for an attractive girl, how do you even screen for this? I mean, it seems like the only way to completely prevent this is just either: a) forgo marriage and maybe even LTRs entirely b) marry a virgin (odds of this nowadays are minuscule) c) read blogs/ getting experience with women so you can look for physical and psychological “tells” that she has a higher partner count and just discard her based on that alone, for your own well being. What a circus.

    • That’s an idea for another post that I’m working on for when I come back from hiatus.

      The best “marriage screen” I can give to men is that you should probably just weed out any girl who consistently goes out to drink and party.

    • M…

      If you are an average guy no attractive girl would want to be with you unless your accomplisments will compensate for your looks.