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In late 2015, Instagram cemented their status as the ultimate facilitator of attention whoring, ego validation, narcissism, male thirst, and occasionally when things go right.. sex between an attractive woman and a skillful man.


I’m talking about the update that allows Direct Messaging (DM) without having to send a picture first (I think this went into effect September 2015). Most of the Instagram game advice that exists today is outdated and tells you to comment on her pictures, follow her, or send her a picture or meme as the first message (because back then you had to).


You can still do those things, but I wouldn’t advise it. These days it seems everyone wants to know how to get girls on Instagram. Follow these four updated steps and you will be well on your way to learning how to meet girls on Instagram and making it a never-ending source of phone numbers, dates, and bangs. 


Step 1: Your Profile


Public or Private?


Follow her or no?


I would advise to keep your pictures public and don’t even bother following the girl until you get her number. The point of being public is so the girl can see your pictures without her following you. You can go around and follow 100 girls in an attempt to get them to follow you back but your conversion rate on this will be low. It’s best to not follow the girls you message until she’s at least being somewhat responsive. If you get her number and chat a bit then you can reward her with a follow and this also works as a good way to spark up the conversation later on.


A few days after I get her number…


Me: “I’ve got some exciting news for you”


Her: “What?”


Me: *Waits 2 hours*  “Look who I just followed”


And you’ll demand a follow back of course. A task of which she’ll receive another verbal reward upon completion.


Me: “Good girl.”


Step 2: Your Pictures


You probably already know this part as it seems to be the most discussed piece on Instagram game and online game in general. So I’ll keep it short. Most of the conventional wisdom holds true here.


  • Picture of you with skyscrapers or something cool in the background
  • Pictures of faraway places you’ve traveled
    • When I travel with my family to do touristy shit, I make sure to have my younger sister take pictures of me by myself next to cool landmarks. This gives the impression I am a well-traveled worldly man when really I’m part of just another tourist family with his mommy and daddy barely out of camera shot. I always seem to forget to tell my sister that these pictures are mostly to impress hot girls on Instagram.
  • Dog pic
    • As we know, most girls are obsessed with dogs to a point of clinical insanity. I think they’re great and all but too much of a hassle for me to actually own one. I borrowed my parent’s dog for my dog picture.
  • Pictures having fun with friends
    • Stage a picture of you popping a bottle of $8 champagne with the foam spewing out.
  • Career picture
    • Anything that shows you’ve got some drive and ambition in your life. Suit up, get in front of a computer, and have your friend take a picture. Caption it “Another late night” or something to that effect. I’m not even wearing pants in mine but you can’t tell.
  • A selfie or two is okay but you definitely don’t want a profile full of selfies. It’s easy to just ask a friend to take a candid picture of you doing something cool.


Hashtag the shit out of your pictures. Tag the city, the neighborhood, the country, and whatever dumb popular quote that people are saying at the time like “#viewsfromthe6’ or whatever Drake tells you is cool. 


Step 3: Your Followers


This part is very important. You should try to get at least 1,000 but the more the merrier. There are lots of legitimate apps you can download and services you can pay a few bucks for to boost your follower count into the high thousands and make girls wonder, “Hmmm who is this guy?”


The high follower count sparks her intrigue and will lead to a better response rate. This is arguably just as important as your pictures, if not more so. Paying a few bucks is worth a high response rate if you ask me because these Instagram girls are fuckin’ hot. I’ve tried a few different services and this one is by far the best.


Pro Tip: Worried your friends will wonder how you got 50,000 followers overnight and call you out on it? Create a separate “famous” Instagram account that none of your friends will ever know about! The recent Instagram update has made it extremely quick and easy to switch between two separate accounts. Check out FollowAdder to boost those followers.


Step 4: It Goes Down in the DM


If you wonder why we don’t hear more about celebrities taking advantage of apps like Tinder and Bumble, it’s because they’re too busy fucking their followers on Instagram. I like rap because most rappers tell it like it is. Yo Gotti’s song, Down in the DM, educated the world on just how much sex and scandal comes from these Direct Messages on Instagram. And I’ll be damned if I don’t get a piece of that action.


Find a girl you like by searching hashtags and geotags of whatever city you’re interested in. Half the girls on dating apps put their IG handle on their dating profile so you’ve got an option there as well.


You can follow Instawhore accounts like TFM Girls, Hottest of EDM, and Barstool Smokeshows that feature girls from different colleges you can message, but the response rate is very low since they are getting blown up by hundreds of guys once they get featured. Don’t contribute to the chodestream. If you follow these types of accounts, go back several months and message one of the featured girls from 3-4 months ago or longer.


Remember the more followers she has, the less likely she is to respond. To date, I have only had one girl write me back who had over 10,000 followers. And it died after the third message.


Once I find a girl with the preferred follower count of less than one thousand, I hit her with “You seem like a good person to ask. If you only had a weekend in ‘insert name of city’.. where would you go out.”


Here are a few examples of how the conversation ideally plays out. Hopefully you like them because it took me forever to blur their names and format these for optimal viewing. These aren’t the entire conversations, but the most important parts that fit into three screenshots.



I do incorporate a little fame game into my routine. I was once featured for a few short clips on a reality TV show and I milk that for all it is worth. Fame game does help but you don’t need it so don’t use that as an excuse if you don’t have it.

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The 3 screenshots are up. You’ll just have to take my word that I got her number and made sweet love to her within 5 minutes of meeting her.




I was proud of myself for managing to get the number after she ignored me twice, but also disappointed in myself for being a loser and double texting two times. I was also very disappointed in myself for saying “lol”.


Sometimes I swing too soon and go for the number before she’s ready to give it out. Compromise with Snapchat (which is just as good as a number if not better).



Once you get the number, all you have to do is run a little text game and set up a date.


Managing Expectations


Remember that the response rate is going to be low. When you send a DM to a girl who doesn’t follow you, she is prompted with a message from Instagram before she even sees your message. She is alerted that a person she does not follow (guy who wants to have sex with her) has sent her a message and she can then decide whether or not she wants to read messages from people she doesn’t follow.


So there’s a good chance she’ll never even see your message. Thankfully, copy and paste still makes this whole scheme worthwhile. 


Currently, read receipts cannot be turned off in Instagram DM. But she can still see a preview of your message in her inbox without actually opening it which would deliver the read receipt to you. If she opened the full message, you will get a little note at the bottom of the text, “Seen”. I usually don’t bother double texting unless they’ve responded at least a couple times. I never double text if they haven’t responded to me at all.
Hopefully this guide will help you on your way to get some Instabangs. Just remember that any form of online game whether through dating apps or through social media should never be your only source of dates. Instagram can be a decent way to tap into those elusive 9s and 10s that are overwhelmed on Tinder and never match with you because you get lost in the shuffle. But never forget the best way to get access to a super hot girl is by walking up to her in real life.


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  • annonfamon

    You’re gonna have to do a follow up on “what to do when she finds out you’re a fraud”, or “when you both find out you’re both frauds”.

    If you have to rely on social media, online dating and lying to get laid; you are lame AF.

    • Women exaggerate their good girl vibe when trying to lock a guy down. Men exaggerate their status when trying to get laid. Welcome to the game.

  • Ray Rivera

    Where all of these girls from all over or local?

    • Most were local. Some were from places I was traveling.