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Hey Patrick – Thanks for writing in.
It sucks when a girl you have real feelings for can replace you in a matter of days or weeks. But that’s kind of the reality we live in. In 2017, all a girl literally has to do is “show up” by downloading Tinder or hitting the bar and she will have a line of dudes eager to court her. But for men to have those kinds of options, it’s a little more difficult.
The good news is that most guys are kind of clueless about how to attract and keep women around. So if you’re willing to put in the work to learn game then you can have abundant options and a high quality dating life.
I honestly think it’s a good thing to get your heart broken by a girl at a young age. You learn a lot from it and that kind of pain is all a part of the full experience of life. Embrace it, learn from it, and ride it out. If you don’t go through that hell, it’s almost like life sold you short and you didn’t get to experience everything.
So now that you’ve had your long term relationship experience, I would advise you to stay single and play the field. Work on yourself and make yourself the most attractive man you can be. You’re not even in the prime of your life yet so you have a lot to look forward to.
If you’re interested in learning game, I just wrote a review post of a book that was one of the most influential in my own development. Check it out.